So readjusting to California life has been good for the most part, but I’ve noticed a couple of things.
First, I’ve forgotten everyone in six months. I feel really bad, especially since I used to be really good at remembering people’s names. Last night, I went to Swirl Cultive with some friends, and a girl waved to me as she left. I thought she looked familiar, but couldn’t put name to face. A little embarrassed, but she left already. Thirty seconds later, she came back in, though, and was like, “You don’t remember me, do you?!” I figured it was someone from APhiO, and Joe, Eddie, or Mika would help me out, but alas, no. Turns out it was Lin, who I worked with at Yolo Fruit Stand.
Second, I seem to have “Minnesota goggles.” Not to say that Minnesotans aren’t attractive. I’m sure there are, in theory, attractive Minnesotans; I just didn’t meet any while I was over there. Mostly due to my lack of a personal life — I worked 7–3 every day, and then went home, which is half an hour from the downtown area, so I couldn’t really enjoy the nightlife. The two cousins I have over there roughly my own age are both (a little) older, married, and their friends are all married or in serious relationships, so I couldn’t really meet anyone through them, either. I suppose I could have hung out more with my not-yet-bar-legal cousin, who is in college and parties often, but it would have been weird to be the older guy at parties that no one really knows, and it also would have been inconvenient, since he lives in a suburb half an hour in the other direction from downtown.
So yeah, just glad to be back in town.